Hypnotherapy has long been used to overcome fears, phobias, addictions and negative habits. I see these as surface issues that are symptoms of a deeper longing or unfulfilled need. Getting to the heart of where these symptoms originate can bring deeper and more lasting results that equal Transformation. Reclaiming personal power is essential to owning your life and taking the driver's seat as you pursue your dreams and goals.

1. Access your subconscious mind to rediscover your gifts.

We arrive on this planet with special gifts, skills and strengths. Many of us have not taken the time to connect with ourselves deeply enough to realize our full potential. Sometimes these gifts show up unexpectedly and we are surprised by what we suddenly know about ourselves. Other times it takes effort to excavate the treasure of who we really are. Using hypnotherapy as direct access to the subconscious mind, we can quickly retrieve the information that you are looking for. Your subconscious holds everything there is to know about you. It’s a vast library of information. You only have to go inside to discover what you seek.

     2. Create a clear path to manifesting your power.
Our subconscious mind is designed to protect us and keep us safe as we learn about how the world works and our place in it. At an early age, the mind takes in information through experiences, good and bad. It creates a safety structure around these early events or traumas. As an adult, some of those protective devices and coping skills, developed in childhood, can sidetrack you from your true potential. The subconscious is still trying to keep you safe using outdated methods. Through hypnosis this old story can be rewritten and a new story put into place. You get to choose what this story is and how it will support you in manifesting the life that you want.

    3. Connect deeply with your inner guidance system.
There are many times in our lives when we just don’t know what to do. We hit a wall. We wonder, “what now?” Other times, we feel that we just cannot trust ourselves. We make decisions that we regret, causing us to doubt ourselves. How would your life be different if you could trust yourself to rely on your intuition? Hypnotherapy is powerful for creating clarity. The clarity that hypnosis offers can be used to surface inner knowledge and your innate deep wisdom.
You come into this world with your own deep wisdom. Unfortunately, for many of us this connection to ourselves is weakened or lost by the time we are adults. Accessing your inner guide will bring you back into relationship with your deepest, truest self. Hypnosis helps you to once again tap into this trustworthy source of guidance.

    4. Use past life regression to get the most out of the present.
We often feel like we are repeating aspects of our lives. Do you seem to always be dating a certain kind of person? Do you feel like you’re making the same kinds of mistakes over and over? Or, do you feel bored with work or relationships? Sometimes, this sense of repeating oneself, or getting nowhere, can be linked to past life experiences.
 
Unfinished business from past lives tangles us in old story, keeping us from moving forward towards our purpose. Unlearned lessons can keep us stuck repeating the negative cycles of the past, in our current lives. Guided regression via hypnotherapy assists you to find clarity by bringing those old patterns or stories to light. Understanding your past choices can give you insight into your present life and circumstances. This deep understanding of self will: empower you to make new choices; release the burdens of the past; and allow you to live your present life with newfound freedom.

    5. Overcome negative habits and reclaim personal power.  
​Through our lives we develop self-care and self-soothing methods that assist us with handling the stresses of daily life. Some of these behaviors are positive. Positive examples of self-care include: meditation, walking, reading, seeking connection, etc. Other coping behaviors like: smoking, nail biting, picking at ourselves, over eating, using drugs or alcohol are unskilled attempts at “self-care”. Unskilled coping methods are usually developed early in life. Emotional stress is managed one way or another, so our subconscious will help to fill in the gaps in our lives with behaviors that seem supportive at the time. However, as we become adults, these behaviors endanger our health and wellbeing. These coping methods no longer actually serve us; instead, we become servants of what have possibly become addictions. Hypnotherapy can help shift power back to you in helping overcome these negative habits and addictions. Shifting power back to you comes through identifying the original intent of the subconscious, then creating new, healthy habits to replace the old, destructive ones. You don’t need to be a slaves to an outdated survival story.
You can reclaim the power of choice in your life. 

If you are ready to take the next steps in connecting with your personal power, reach out and contact me. I can't wait to get started!

       As the seasons change and we head into this season of darkness, we are invited to retreat, pull our energy in and rest. We see that Nature is already doing this, the leaves have fallen, the sap moves into the roots of the trees and plants and the light fades. The movement and energy of that natural world slows down and goes within, underground. As a part of Nature, this is a season for you to also slow down, let go of extra activities, bring your energy home and cultivate your own growth.

As we embrace this time of year we allow ourselves, we give ourselves permission to seek out what is cheery, comfortable and nourishing. Each of us knows how to do this, how to bring our own light into this sweet cozy time. Allowing your body to rest, your heart to rest, your mind to settle into contemplation.

As we surrender to the seasons we are supported by their bounty, the root vegetables that grow in the darkness are ready to nourish our bodies, all foods that are warming and hearty prepare us for the season to come. Our bodies soften and become more comfortable, fire becomes a regular part of our lives, lighting the dark and warming our souls. 

​As we draw ourselves in we have the opportunity to create inner spaciousness through meditation and stillness.  In the dark is the potential of all things. Our new growth is the potential of a seed in this quietness. Now is the time for you to cultivate that seed, keeping it warm, hidden and secret. In this space new things will be born, all new life emerges from the darkness. Embrace this season as a gift, allowing it to cultivate in you, stillness, patience and possibility.

Some of us thought about the kind of parents we would be once the time came, others of us never really considered planning ahead in this way. I am the latter. I knew that I wanted to have a bunch of kids, I knew that parenting was going to be part of my story. When it came down to it, as I held my first infant in my arms, I realized that I didn't know what the heck I was doing. I didn't even know how to change a diaper.
All these years later as I reflect on my journey as a parent one thing becomes crystal clear, I did a good job, I was and am a great parent. In those early years I chose my main goal, my legacy. This was to make relationship with my children my top priority. I wanted to know them for who they really were and would become, I wanted them to know and see me as a human being, not a collection of services. Choosing this has shaped my children and it has shaped me as a parent.
When I am working with clients I engage with a lot of people who were not parented in this way. Families have different priorities, however one common theme seems to be that parenting is equated with controlling, dominating and punishing. This type of parenting does not lead to healthy, empowered individuals. This creates adults that second guess themselves, doubt their value, struggle with perfectionism, have low self-esteem, make poor choices, eat to comfort themselves and experience depression/anxiety. 
So, what does it look like to heal from poor/unskilled parenting? One of the first steps is to decide what kind of parent you want to be. You don't need to have kids, cats, dogs or any parenting experience. Deciding what kind of parent you want to be is about choosing a parenting style that resonates with you. Read some books, check out some blogs, do your research. Take what you glean and apply these newfound skills to yourself! You deserve to be loved unconditionally. You deserve to cut your own path, be your authentic self and make choices that bring you life and joy. It is never too late to take up the role of parent for yourself. Give yourself encouragement, comfort and guidance. Believe in yourself! Take good care of you, put on a sweater, make yourself go to bed when you are tired, eat healthy food, don't watch too much TV, go out with your friends, share, love and above all BE YOU. No strings, no vicarious dreams, no shadow of someone else's pain or story, just YOU. You have a purpose on this planet, one of your very own. Seek it out, embrace it and love it to life. Be a great parent!

It is easy to let our past, predict our future. If you believe that you are not smart enough, will you go back to school? If you believe that you are not worthy of good things, will you allow them into your life? If you have had negative relationships, will you pursue positive ones now?
Letting who you believed yourself to be yesterday, last week, last year or 20 years ago keep you from being who you are today is a common trap. It is easy to keep those old stories playing in our minds, allowing them to inform the present with old news. We can be attached to the past, and what we believe it "says" about us. We can also choose to release the old, not believe it anymore and take action as proof. 
Each new day is a new you. Every moment we have the opportunity to be our best selves, and if we miss our chance, we have another and another and another. Knowing that you are given moment by moment "do-overs", how will you change your life? This constant grace is extended to all, we can also gift it to ourselves and to those around us. 
This leads to the question; "Are you holding others in their past?" We allow the past of others to inform us of who they are today. When we do this we hold on to judgement and crush possibility. Allow yourself and others to be who they are today, acknowledging that we are all in constant evolution. Approach yourself and others with open curiosity, making space to discover the new story.

During my meditation today, I had a clear picture of the Earth and how it's gravity keeps us close and safe. My mind created an image of the Earth's core being a heart, and how it is this space that generates the heavy love that keeps us grounded. This image was profound, I know that it is not scientific in nature, but a clear example of how love holds us together.
The next phase of this meditation was an image of myself, with my own heart creating a gravity field, drawing others to me and holding them in safety and care. The stronger and deeper my love the stronger and deeper the pull. Loving this way gives others stability, grounding and the potential for growth. The Earth is not selfish, she does not make distinctions between living and non-living, good or bad. All are held in the same sweet grip of gravity, all being drawn towards the heart. This love is both passive and active. The passive aspect is your embodiment of love, how are you love in your life? Do you radiate acceptance, care, kindness and peace? The active aspect of love is, of course, action. How do you demonstrate love? Another thing to consider is the quality of your own core. The earth's core is still mostly speculation, however when we think of our core, our heart center, is it whole?
The quality of our love gravity field has to do with the quality of love we carry. This starts with you. Do you love yourself? When we begin the journey to our own core, it starts with forgiveness, acceptance and love. We cannot give away what we do not have. Can you give water from an empty well? When we desire to bring love into this world, it must come from a place where love overflows. Loving yourself is planting a seed that will bear fruit to be shared with others.
A good way of doing this is by identifying how you care for others now, and turing some of that attention on to yourself. Do you enjoy giving gifts, time and service to others? What would it look like for you to do that for yourself?
Improving the health and wholeness of your heart core will strengthen your gravity field and draw others into space that has the potential to change them.
As we live our lives we have the capacity to influence others in a big way. Your gravity of love could provide space for one person, on one day to feel that there is possibility and hope, just by experiencing love.
​The love that we carry can be felt by those around us, just as anger, hate and judgement can also be felt. We can feel when someone is at odds with themselves, are unhappy and self-loathing. This is why in order to cultivate love in the world, we must always begin with ourselves.